How People Change, Chapter 11

Chapter 11 – Cross 1: New Identity and New Potential

1. Why do the authors say they did not start the book with this chapter?
(p. 147-148).
2. Why are past experiences or talents not a good indicator of our potential as a Christian? (p. 149).
3. Read Galatians 2:20. How does the cross dramatically change our life right now? (p. 149).
4. Read Romans 8:9-10. Contrast those who have Christ and those who do not (p. 150).
5. Summarize each of the redemptive truths from the Galatians passage (p. 150-151). These are “wow” truths. Underline what is significant to you and let it sink into your heart.
6. How will your life be different because of these redemptive truths? Look at the three redemptive implications on p. 152- 153.
7. What if you fail? (p. 153-154).
8. Personal Growth Project: (from supplementary material)
Quote: “Here is another opportunity to examine the area you chose as your Personal Growth Project. Think about what you have learned about life in this fallen world, your own heart and behavior, the consequences of your choices and actions, and now, the amazing heart and life changing grace of the Lord Jesus. As you reflect on what you have learned, begin thinking about how the CROSS equips you to deal with your struggle. Use these questions to guide your thoughts.
a. Where have you failed to recognize that sin’s power over you has been broken, and you do not have to give in to it any longer? How would embracing this truth change the way you think and respond?
b. Where have you failed to live up to your full potential as a child of God? Where have you failed to take advantage of the wisdom, strength, and character that is yours because Christ lives within you? In what specific situations and relationships do you have God-given opportunities to exercise the new things that are yours in Christ?
c. Where have you been repeatedly tempted to forget that the CROSS has fundamentally changed you, which has led you to give in to old temptations and patterns? How would remembering the CROSS lead to new ways of dealing with these old things?
d. Where specifically would a CROSS-centered perspective change your relationships? (Forgiveness? Patience and grace? Compassion and gentleness? Making peace? Speaking the truth? Humble service? Saying “no?”).
Where is God calling you to new ways of living in the middle of the same old stuff? Where do you need to say, “I do not have to give in to that!” or “I have greater potential than that!””